Heroics Are Not Faithfulness

Working harder after the score is the old job.

A Rock has a name, a date, and a number. To Do Lists fill the week. Rocks change the direction of the company. You already know that. Here is the part most owners will not say out loud. A culture of heroics is a culture of chaos. It feels like faithfulness. It is the opposite of a Christ-centered culture, the kind that can innovate, put the work in order, and count what is actually happening.

Scripture does not despise a hard day. David still walked to the giant. Nehemiah still posted the watch. A hard day under an order is not the problem. The problem is a company that only moves when one person saves it. That is not order. That is chaos with a testimony attached.

Watch what it does to the room.

The owner steps in and makes the call. He does it again the next day. After a while the leaders stop making calls. Not because they are lazy. Because their calls get squashed. Rather than speak up and get stomped, they wait. The situation will be handled. It always is. By him.

That wait is the largest hit to productivity I see in a heroics culture. People will wait for the decision rather than take the initiative to act. A vendor sits on hold. A crew stands by the truck. A quote does not go out. Sometimes it is an hour. Sometimes it is the rest of the day. On the wrong issue it is days. The work was not hard. The work was parked, waiting on one mouth. You can add headcount and still lose the day, because the day is stuck in a queue that has one name on it. On a $10 million company, a day parked like that is not a mood. It is a few thousand dollars you will not see on the scorecard, repeated until it looks like the market. The market did not take it. The queue did.

Then everything lives in his head. If it lives in his head, it never gets broadcast. People make bad decisions because they were never given the real order. I use the example of making a cake. The boss says he wants a chocolate cake. That was the job. Then he gets into how you are going to make it. Milk before the flour not flour before the milk. Beat the egg first, not beat the egg into the mix. Next thing you know, the argument about the batter eats the afternoon. The cake never gets baked. He asked for an outcome and then took the method back. That is not leadership. That is the owner doing the baker’s job, badly, and calling it standards.

Micromanagement is the next turn of the same screw. He does not trust the seat, so he stands on it. Good people will not live under that. They leave. The people who stay are not always the best people. They are the people who learned the game. Be quiet. Play to the ego. Play to the issue of the week. They look like good teammates. A lot of them are marginal. They survived by attrition, not by fitness. I have sat with a founder who heard their own people say that out loud. They were still there because the others had already gone.

Now the part that is easy to miss, and easy to dress up as devotion.

Often the owner needs to be the hero. Not for the company, but for his self worth. Stepping in is how he proves he still matters. Directing people is how he proves he is necessary. He can talk all day about what he has to do for the business, how he cannot find good people, how nobody else will do it right. Some of that is true. A lot of it is the story that keeps the rescue going. If the rescue stops, the proof stops.

This is not the same thing as narcissism. Some owners have that trait. That is a different problem, and it needs a different conversation. This one is more common. A decent man or a decent woman. Tired. Validated by being the one who saves it.

And it wears them out. Physically. Mentally. Spiritually. I see it in a client’s all the time.  Everything is in their head. They want it done a certain way. The good people have left. The people who stayed will tell you they are there by attrition, not because they can hold the seat. They are tired. There are other things they wants to do with their life. They want to transition,  but cannot let go. So the solution on the table is more of the same. More stepping in. More directing. That is not a transition. That is the trap, with a calendar on it.

You have seen this owner. You may be this owner. You may be related to this owner. It is one of the most common threads in a small company. In order for the score to get accomplished, the owner cannot leave the room. The medal is the fatigue. If you are their spouse or family, you already knew this. You have watched the rescue eat the evening over and over and believe it will always be this way. 

It does not have too.

Here is what the “rescue” also costs. Nothing new gets tried. The owner who has to touch every batter cannot stand a new way of mixing it. Innovation dies in the same argument that killed the cake. Orchestration dies because every seat waits on one mouth. The count dies because a parked day never makes the scorecard. That is why a Christ-centered culture is the opposite. Innovation. Orchestration. Quantification. Three words for a company that can move when he is not the hero.

Scripture already argued with this.

Exodus 18. Moses is judging every dispute from morning to evening. Jethro watches and tells him the thing is not good. He will wear out, and the people with him. The fix is not a harder working Moses. It is rulers over thousands, hundreds, fifties, and tens, and Moses reserved for the hard cases. God was not asking Moses to stop caring. He was telling him to stop being the only judge in the camp.

Ephesians 4 is the same order in another room. Christ gave apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds, and teachers. Five jobs. Not five celebrities. He gave them to equip the saints for the work, so the body gets built up. The five do not do the work for everybody else. They fit everybody else to do it. If every decision parks on you, you have not enacted this. You are the bottleneck. You are not the equipper. The finish line in that passage is not how tired you are. It is a people who can stand without you.

Matthew 25. The master gives each servant a trust according to his ability, and then he goes away. He does not stand over the bowl and argue about the flour. The servant who buried the talent was not confused about the job. He was afraid of the master. That is the quiet leader in a heroics culture. He did not lose his mind. He lost his nerve, because the owner kept taking the work back.

Matthew 11. Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. A culture of heroics promises that rest is on the other side of one more rescue. It delivers exhaustion. His order will not buy you an easy year. It will let you put the work down at the end of a day because the seat can hold it. That is a different rest than collapsing.

This is where the direction gets set. Call it the moral heading if you need a name for it. One degree off there, and every other number lies. Ask one question before you trust the plan. Do you hire and fire from a written standard, or from whoever will tolerate the rescue? The owner who squashes the call is not protecting the company. A lot of the time he is protecting the only proof he has that he matters. Working harder after the score feels like obedience. It is the old job.

A Rock with a name, a date, and a number is how you stop praising the rescue. Read it on Tuesday. The number that matters is not how late you stayed. It is whether the seat can hold the work without you.

Faith-given traction is not the rescue. It is the order kept, on Monday, not only on Sunday. The count shows whether you obeyed. It does not replace Him. Next week we lock that moral heading before we trust the other six. A heading you will not look at is a door you already decided to leave Him behind.

Read the seven: https://tfcigroup.com/diagnostic/

The order the gauges point at: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0H2DJ3TYX

See you on the inside.

Let the deed shaw.

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